I’ve been dating an amazing guy who’s only just recently become “too busy” for a relationship.
I know that is really just code for him losing interest and that’s okay… Oddly though, he suggested that we have another conversation in a week’s time to see where things are at.
Poor fellow, you've emailed countless Dommes and none of them write back. You've expressed your willingness to do "anything." What more could they ask? While some Dommes are only looking for lifestyle slaves others seek play partners.
The checklist is a simple list of fetishes and kinks.
For each item note how you feel: Let her know if you see D/s as a lifestyle or a form of play. The more honestly felt words you present about yourself the better your chances of meeting a compatible Domme.
And there's nothing to be gained by trying to meet someone you can't satisfy or that would be inappropriate for you.
Aside from the checklist you really should have a few paragraphs describing yourself and your interests outside of D/s.